How Home Groups help your Student Ministry Grow


Home Groups act similarly to traditional youth group where there was an element of fun and Bible teaching. However, where it differs was there was dinner served and it was in someones home, not a Church building. Also, worship was optional, but not many of our home groups involved worship. Home groups are also designed to serve a smaller number of students so we have multiple home groups going on which was great for us to connect different students from different schools (our church serves 4 high schools in our area). What we saw in our Student Ministry was that students who wouldn’t come back to Church Sunday night (or any other night) for youth group would make their way to home groups regularly. The attendance wasn’t as high as if we did a special event, but it was a tremendous uptick from doing traditional youth group. Why is that?  For us it was simple. Home groups are about community. They are less structured and more relational. Youth Group, on the other hand, was just another Church service but at home groups students connected in a powerful way. Teens are craving community. Sure, they can find and do find it in a Church building, but a home offers a different environment for teens to come to and experience a warm, safe environment. A home of a trusted family in your Church community is often a safe place. And, when there is that warm place to go to, often times with a home cooked meal, caring adult leaders and other teens there it is a very inviting place for any teen to come to. So how did this help grow our ministry and how will it help grow yours?

  • Community happens. As mentioned above, teens feel comfortable and a sense of community in a home and will likely return more often week after week.
  • Adult leaders have a more targeted group of students they can follow up with. We have specific leaders at specific groups and these leaders now have a mini-youth group that they can best pray for, reach out to and minster to. Small groups can even develop sooner from a home group environment as students become more comfortable with each other.
  • Teens engage in more meaningful conversation. When teaching to a bigger group, you can’t have a ton of meaningful interaction during the message. You are sharing a group message to a bigger group. In a home group setting our teaching is more discussion based where we are all looking into the passage together and discussing it.
  • We still do big group gatherings. Community is important with a big group and home group. We want our students connecting with each other as a whole Church community. That is why we continue to do strategic events together once a month to let them see the bigger community of teens learning about life and God together.

Conclusion

Traditional youth group still works well in different contexts. However, it wasn’t working for our student ministry. Once we went all in on home groups and eliminated traditional youth group, we have seen growth unmatched over the past few years. Teens are connecting with other teens and adult leaders, they are growing in their faith and keep coming back regularly. Doing traditional youth group wasn’t helping that happen. Home Groups are and we are excited to see how many more groups we can start so even more teens can come and experience Christ in a real and relevant way. What do you think? What has been your experiences with home groups?  Share them below or on social media using #ymsidekick when you share. [mc4wp_form id="8855"] Want to learn digital tools to expand your reach in ministry? Join the Digital Bootcamp Facebook Group! Digital Missionary]]>


2 Replies to “How Home Groups help your Student Ministry Grow”

  1. We are looking into having Home Groups this fall. I have some questions:
    – What’s your ideal group size? Do you have limits on max size?
    – How have you trained and equipped your leaders to facilitate home groups?
    – Do they break into small groups during Home Group?

    Thanks!
    Jonathan VM

    1. Great questions!
      1. Ideal size is 20-25. When we get that big we talk about splitting and forming other groups
      2. We take time to go over what it looks like and how to do it. As a leader first starts we want them part of an existing group to learn how it works. This usually takes about a month and then we let them go. I also meet with them regularly.
      3. Small Groups are definitely a possibility there. But if they don’t happen there, we encourage leaders to form small groups out of that home group to further the discipleship relationship.

      Let me know if you have any other questions here or at tom@ymsidekick.com.

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