But here is the question I’m wrestling with this summer, “are we doing too much?”. I realize that this isn’t an abnormal question student ministers ask, but for me it is hitting really hard this summer as our team is trying to figure out how to move forward. In particular, I’m really wondering if we are doing too much where we need to cut back to just the basics. And, what would it look like for us to go back to the basics. What “basics” am I talking about? You know them. It’s your church mission statement…going back to the Great Commission…back to the 2 greatest commandments. Those are as basic as you get. Why am I thinking of cutting back? There are a variety of reasons but it basically boils down to two things:
- Kids are too busy. I know it sounds like a lame excuse, and kids should choose God over anything else. As much as I would hope that to be true, the simple fact is it’s not. They choose things over God all the time and so do we. I can keep trying to do a lot of things hoping kids would chance their mind or I change our approach and hope it works.
- Overdoing creates under-commitment. In our effort to meet students needs, we tend to overdo. That is where I think our program is. We are doing too much and because kids are busy as it is, they are picking and choosing from a lot of really good things to do rather than just a few really great things.
- Relationships over programs. By doing so many programmatic things for our student ministry I’m also zapping a lot of time, energy and effort from our leaders. When they are doing so many programs and activities they have less time for real relationships with students. And, as we all know, it is through relationships that lives are changed, not because of the programs.